Comments
From Individuals: Follow-Up Article
It has been several months now since I reported on ADD and hypersensitivity.
Since that time I have heard from several ADD adults who suffer some of the same symptoms.
One person sent me an article entitled "Social & Emotional Issues of Adults with
Sensory Defensiveness" from the Sensory Integration Newsletter published by The
American Occupational Therapy Assoc. Many of these same hypersensitivities are mentioned
in this article and I will quote from the article as well as what was shared by the
readers who wrote to me.
Sensory Integration Newsletter states, "Adults with tactile defensiveness commonly
report strong clothing preferences and avoidances, and aversions to clothes with tags,
jewelry....may also feel uncomfortable with wool or synthetic materials against the
skin....and may be bothered by these aversions to an extreme degree...."
Along those same lines K. wrote in that, "I have to keep my shoes tied tight on my
feet....if they are not tight I get frustrated....I find that I constantly re-tie my shoes
as tight as possible, during the day."
D. relates, "I agree completely about the elastic....I also do not like sleeves,
high collars, knee socks that fall down, tags on the inside of shirts, anything touching
my skin that isn't soft or cottony, slacks too tight in the crotch....I hate panty
hose....I don't wear my coat in the car, I have a nice thin vest with lots of pockets that
I wear while shopping."
In regards to sensitivity to food textures M. shares, "My dad as a child couldn't
stand different foods to touch, so my grandmother bought him a compartmentalized plate....
I had to do the same for my son....he stopped picking up wet finger foods or food that
made his hands sticky....he wanted a different spoon or fork for each food....he wanted
only bland soft foods and to this day there are very few foods he likes....My taste is
more sensitive than the others in my family."
D. says, "I am also a picky eater, but I love spicy food. I can't stand browned
scrambled eggs and my fried eggs must be perfect."
When it comes to heat and cold sensitivity, M. writes, "If it gets around 70
degrees I'm cold....that's why we live in the desert....my hands and feet seem to always
have had poor circulation....my hands get cold inside good leather gloves." K.
states, "....especially cold....I need to dress and keep the house warm as soon as
cool weather moves in....if I didn't love New England so much I would probably live in a
warm climate year round."
The remarks about hearing sensitivity includes: M., clock in the living room because he
could her it ticking all the way in his room....my son can sleep through noises but
certain frequencies hurt or upset him....I travel with a Sears "sleepmate" white
noise machine. I can't sleep without masking the noise. I annoy the heck out of my husband
by my ability to hear the TV at the other end of the house....I can't have a ticking clock
in the room where I sleep....my dad also has a noise machine." K., "....when
trying to focus on things I can't filter out noises....while typing this letter I can hear
water dripping in the next room, the refrigerator turning on and off, and a car engine
idling outside." And D., "I enjoy loud music, but only when I feel like it. I
think that's why people think we are selfish at times."
Sensory Integration Newsletter reports, "Social events....puts the person with
defensiveness in an uncomfortable situation....Almost all subjects described the
discomfort
experienced when someone's touch takes them by surprise....many subjects describe
shaking hands as unpleasant....when the touch or hug from comes from behind, it's effect
is multiplied because of the element of surprise....and may need to exert self-control to
avoid striking out at the person who touched them."
M. shares, "I don't like being touched....even shaking hands is difficult....It's
taken my husband years to learn how to touch me without provoking a negative response.
Touching my head or hair is a no no!" A twist on this particular hypersensitivity
comes from D. who says, "I am happy to say the hypersensitivity to touch, in the
romantic sense, is more often a plus than a minus." And K. adds, "I don't mind
shaking someones hand, but forget hugging....Whenever someone hugs me, I tense up
and my stomach gets tied up in knots....being married my wife loves to be touched....I get
all tied up when she hugs me or wants to be hugged or held....It tears me apart because I
love my wife and yet for some reason want my space."
"Most subjects described feeling uncomfortable in crowded places such as crowded
elevators, buses, or subways, restaurants, stores, malls....shopping is difficult for
them", states Sensory Integration Newsletter. K. agrees by saying, "I have
difficulty
going into elevators, and detest having to go to malls, food stores, sporting events,
etc....I get very overstimulated, overwhelmed and irritable until I'm free from crowded
areas." D. states, "I notice that claustrophobia is more evident when I am
somewhere I don't like to be, such as in a car on a trip of more than an hour."
In some individuals there seems to be a connection between having ADD and being
hypersensitive, as these cases indicate. I would be interested in hearing from others of
you who experience some of the same symptoms. I want to thank M., K., and D. for writing
and sharing their personal experiences with us.
I welcome your comments! Please E-mail me at MJJ4ADD@aol.com
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